Women and Sex: What Makes Them Happy

What Women Need for a Happy Sex Life

Traditionally, men are thought to be way easier to please sexually. Apparently, all guys need is to see a bit of skin, and they’re raring to go. For them, sexual desire and sexual satisfaction are easy to come across. So why is it so different with women? Or perhaps it’s not that different after all?

Both men and women need to have active sex lives to fulfill their desires for a happy life. While it may seem a bit shallow, it’s entirely normal that sexual activity is crucial for achieving the feeling of content.

But while we both enjoy sexual activities, we don’t necessarily crave the same aspects of it. For instance, women enjoying sex will be more into sharing sexual intimacy with a partner. While guys do appreciate it as well, they’re not that bothered by it. Women’s sex drives are …

Men Read Erotica Too

Why Do Men Like Reading Erotica

Do men really read erotica? When “Fifty Shades of Grey” came out, erotica came to the forefront of our attention. It’s one of the most popular movie-book adaptations, and women flocked to cinemas and bookstores to see the movie for the first time and buy their copy of the book.

During that time, men stood aside, and nobody really expressed any interest in the movie. Some guys would jokingly talk about watching it, but that was all that it was — a joke. Or was it?

For some of them, it was something the Internet people would call a Schrodinger’s douchebag. Or, in this instance, perhaps it’s more fitting a Schrodinger’s erotica fan. Basically, they would put the idea out there, and they would decide whether they were sarcastic or not based on the other guys’ reaction. So, while “Fifty Shades of Grey” is …

How Reading Erotica Affects Your Life

Reading erotic fiction can be fun, exciting, and arousing. Many enjoy reading it, and there are so many stories available. Whether you are a fan of erotica or not, you might want to know that it can be both beneficial for your mental health and your sex life. 

Relieves Stress and Anxiety

One of the first things you might notice if you decide to read erotica is that it will help you relieve stress. The brain is, without a doubt, the most powerful sex organ. That is where our fantasies appear first, and that’s where our dreams originate. While the erotic story you’re reading might not be your fantasy, you can still fill in the blanks in storytelling with your own kinks and preferences. 

But raunchy sex stories can be arousing for many. While the quality might not always be on the level, and you certainly won’t get Oscar Wilde

The Dos And Don’ts Of Writing Erotic Fiction

Erotic novels are a great way to express yourself. But what is the difference between good and bad erotica? We decided to give you a few hints that might help you along the way, and allow you to improve your writing skills. 

Erotic Novels Are Not Just for Jerking Off

When writing about sex, your goal shouldn’t be for people to jack off to it. Not saying that it isn’t a compliment for your writing skills and story, but there should be a lot more to it. Your goal is to respect the reader, genre, and write a sex scene that is more than a porn scenario.

You should try approaching your story as any other writer. That is, you should excite people’s brains as much as their genitals. Focus on writing a thrilling story that will be exciting to read while talking about naughty stuff. 

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Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Writing Erotica

As an erotica author, I’ve found that many people have preconceived notions about the art of writing erotica and erotic romance. Before I became well versed in writing the genre, I had misconceptions of my own, and that led to much trial and error as I worked to refine my craft and learn how better to please my audience. Following are 10 tips I’ve accrued for those curious about writing erotica:

1. It’s not all about the sex—really. While sex does play a key role in erotica, the sex itself is secondary to the development of the characters and plot. A good erotica writer knows that, no matter how great the sex is, there still needs to be a good, solid story if one wants to hold a reader’s interest.

2. Dynamics sell. Flat characters never go far, but in erotica, you really do have your work cut out …

5 Steps to Getting Started in Erotica Writing

Erotic fiction has been around for centuries but, in recent years, has enjoyed a surge in popularity. If you have ever toyed with the idea of writing erotica but don’t know where to begin, here are a few tips to help get you started on the road to writing bedroom fiction.

1. Get with the genre

Though both deal heavily with the subject of sex, pornography and erotica are two different animals. Erotica follows the basic rules in writing in that there must be interesting characters and a plot surrounding the sexual elements. Porn, on the other hand, deals strictly with the act itself. If there is a plot or even interesting characters, it’s purely coincidental.

It is important to know the difference therefore immerse yourself in the writing of published erotica authors such as Katy Terretaga and Erica Jong. There are also many websites that offer a library of …

Why All of Us Should Start Reading Erotica Again

We are witnessing increasingly popular consumerism as a product of the modern age. Everything is available to us, and everything is easily replaceable.  Imagination has disappeared, and romance is almost gone. Eroticism had a much deeper meaning in the old days, and sex was the crown of intimacy. Today we are in a hurry. We have no time, and very often, we forget that enthusiasm for life. We lost that curiosity we had as children.

So, our sex lives suffer too. Everything becomes monotonous, and, often, we lose the will for it. However, some are very happy to return to some old but proven recipes for a healthier, more fulfilling sex life. In bookstores, you can find numerous books that deal with the topic of sex, from instructional manuals for young people to guides for the more experienced, and finally to erotic novels.

People like to learn from books on …

Top Sexual Fantasies for Men

What are the top sexual fantasies for men? Do all guys have particular fetishes that they fantasize about the most? Which ones are the most common, and which ones are the kinkiest? Check out our article for the most common fantasies that turn men on!

Being Submissive

Firstly, men are usually the ones who initiate sex. Therefore, it’s only natural that many guys have submission fantasies. By being submissive, men can allow women to take control of their sexual pleasure. That can be highly stimulating. It can also make men feel like an object of intense sexual desire.

Submission fantasies can range from kinky sex games (i.e., light bondage and blowjobs) to more advanced forms of BDSM play. In light submission fantasies, men can become the object of a woman’s libido. They could allow the woman to take control. This type of submission doesn’t have to be degrading, and it …

How to improve your pet play fetish

Submission comes in different ways. When you’re showing affection, love, attraction, and desire for your partner, there’s no right or wrong way of doing it. You can be dirty and slutty, or cute and silly, or calm and perfectly obedient. 

You can try exploring everything that the submissive part of yourself has to offer. That way, you may discover that you can give your partner a lot more than you had previously thought. Plus, you can find excitement and joy in many unexpected places!

However, every BDSM role is quite demanding. And no matter what your preferences and interests are, you need some time to learn how to play your part. As we all know, practice makes perfect!

And when it comes to the role of a pet, that one certainly isn’t everybody’s cup of tea. On the other hand, there are a lot of reasons why so many kinksters

Fantasies That Women Love But Won’t Admit

What are some of the hottest sexual fantasies that women love but won’t admit? While women can have many kinky fantasies, some are more common than others. They can range from vanilla sex to even the kinkiest, most extreme forms of hardcore intercourse. Are you curious to learn more? Keep reading to learn about some secret sex acts that most women fantasize about!

Being Completely Dominated

Most women love to be submissive during sex, and almost every girl has some secret domination fantasy. The reason is that sexual domination can make a woman feel overpowered and lose control. That’s why many ladies fantasize about activities like spanking, slapping, choking, scratching, name-calling, bondage, and more. That also includes BDSM and more extreme aspects of forceful play like rape fantasies.

With all of those examples, it’s worth noting that they do not reflect what a woman really wants. Consensual and playful force …

Are you Bold Enough to Try out a Huge Dildo?

Have you heard of John Holmes? He was a pornstar in the 70s and pretty much the real-life Dirk Diggler (from Boogie Nights). Holmes was famous for having a huge king cock, and there were even mythical stories about it. He insured his penis for $14 million — a million for every inch! There’s even a fake story about how they tried him for manslaughter after he inadvertently killed two men during anal.

Trying out new dildos is fun since you can mess around with their sizes. If you have a growing selection, opening that special drawer would be like going through hors d’oeuvres. Sure, you start off small, but as time goes by, your size-queen eyes start getting hungry. You keep catching yourself biting your lip while watching Boogie Nights, and before you know it, you’re on Google, typing in “monster dildo.”

But when you look at all those